well in a nice turn of events i am WEARING IT AS WE SPEAK thanks bae!!
It bothers me a lot when people have such misguided expectations of “the type of person” with whom they want to be. Most of the time, they have unrealistic expectations. This is especially prevalent among gay people. They want the “straight guy” or they want someone who completely would not fit into their life. It’s such a superficial culture, and it’s really sad.
I can’t say that I don’t every ascribe to these homosexual norms sometimes, but something is fucked up. It’s not about being “masc” or being “hetero looking”. People should knock the narrow scopes in which they view perspective mates and instead have a more open mind. Yes looks matter, but looks fade and you need to find someone who’s soul you love.
And if you’re just looking to have fun and hook-up that’s a whole different story, but to find a partner, to find someone to spend your life with… superficial, incompatible, and frankly naive decisions are not gonna work out.